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Today Is an Important Date

5/11/2013

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Today is an important date.

Today is the day 77 youth were inspired to learn about their family history by local Las Vegas attorney, Todd L. Moody, JD, at the National Genealogical Society's 2013 Conference's Youth Camp held in the morning on the last day of the conference, Saturday, 11 May 2013.

The boys and girls -- some of which were Boy Scouts earning merit badges -- were provided information on how to start their family history journey by being shown an example of some family history documents and then being asked to list down important dates either about an ancestor or about themselves so they could later break down into small groups and write biographies, or autobiographies.

Understandably, many decided to write about themselves, which is what we, as family historians, sometimes forget to do. Write about ourselves. We focus so much on the dead, we forget to record the living, especially ourselves.

Of course, when it comes to our own important dates, it's sometimes hard to list those important dates. After all, what is important? Is it important enough to record?

And this was certainly something that came up with the youth in the camp. Here's what I overheard while they were eagerly brainstorming:

"Is Chicken Pox an important date?"

"What day was I adopted? Do you remember? I know I was wearing my pretty new dress..."

"What day did we receive our medallion?"

"I don't know any important dates."

I wanted to yell out, "Write it all down! Don't leave anything out!"

But then they would've wondered who the crazy lady in the red top was in the back of the room and why she was yelling to write all those details down.

And I would've told them. It's because a person's stories and personality are in those details. That's how we'll know who you really are or were. As family historians, we yearn for those small and seemingly insignificant details about our ancestors. {Can I get an, "Amen"?}

It's why after finding out a fellow researcher has inherited their ancestor's personal diary we celebrate with them while secretly thinking, "I want that. Why can't I get one of those? Why them and not me?"

It's why we do happy dances in the middle of cemeteries and fist pump, "Yes," after, of course, making sure there are no interments being performed at the moment.

It's why we tear up and our hearts ache at microfilm readers after finally finding out that our 3rd great grandmother passed away after having her previously-unknown-to-us 4th child and then finding out that her 4th child passed away several months later -- all between when the censuses were recorded and well before the time period vital records were recorded.

It's why we smile and nod our heads when after reading about the school supplies and school clothes our second great grandmother listed in her daily farm journals of expenses, we realize some things just don't change.

It's those details that lead us to stories about our ancestors.

It's those details that will lead others to who you really were.

So, yes, when you had Chicken Pox is an important date.

Tell us about that dress you wore on the day you were adopted. You know, the dress that put that beautiful smile on your face and that dreamy look in your eyes when you were trying to remember the date you were adopted.

And tell us all about your medallion. Why did you get it? When did you get? And how did it make you feel when you got it? What were you wearing when you received it?

Write down any and all dates you can remember. They're all important -- even if you don't think they are. We do. And someone else will too. Maybe -- no, especially -- the older "You" will.

Tell us everything about you.

And don't forget to tell us about today.

For today is an important date.

It's the day you started learning about your family history.

~Caroline
11 Comments
Elyse Doerflinger link
5/11/2013 06:26:47 am

We can only hope that these kids catch the bug - maybe not today or tomorrow, but that they catch it.

And I love how you turned a post about Youth Camp into a post truly about recording the details of who our ancestors (and ourselves) really are. It totally made me cry (in a good way).

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Caroline Pointer
5/11/2013 07:35:18 am

Thanks Elyse! The kids made me tear up with their questions so I thought I shouldn't be the only one. LOL. ;)

~C

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Donna Hansen Peterson link
5/11/2013 09:13:23 am

Made me tear up too! It they don't catch it today, I bet they do when they become parents or grandparents. Then they'll remember today.

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Caroline Pointer
5/13/2013 10:53:40 am

Agreed, Donna. They'll remember the day they began their family history journey.

Thanks for reading, Donna. I appreciate it. =)

~C

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Kenneth Spangler link
5/11/2013 02:35:45 pm

This is awesome! I'm glad I'm not the only one who tears up when I am researching. I think my wife sometimes think I'm getting a little soft in my old age! :-)

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Caroline Pointer
5/13/2013 10:54:56 am

Kenneth,

LOL. It's good t be soft -- to empathize.

Thanks for reading...and empathizing. =)

~C

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Mariann Regan link
5/12/2013 11:13:29 am

Excellent advice for the Youth Camp Attendants and for us too, Caroline. It makes me realize, too, that I have written down the shape of my feelings while often ignoring my facts. How silly is that? The focus on others can blind us, sometimes.

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Caroline Pointer
5/13/2013 10:57:47 am

Mariann, we are so focused on our ancestors and our journey to find them and understand them that we forget that someone on down the road will want to know about us and will want to understand us.

Thanks for stopping by, Mariann. I appreciate it. =)

~C

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Susan Clark link
5/13/2013 01:32:06 pm

So well done, Caroline! You have put into words what has the most meaning for me as a family historian.

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Janet Hovorka link
5/14/2013 04:15:32 am

You have an AMEN from me Caroline. Part of why family history makes OUR lives so much richer is because it gives us that perspective on life. Someone is going to wonder about us today. That makes today all the more breathtaking.

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Jana Last link
5/17/2013 05:11:26 am

Caroline,

You have a hearty AMEN from me as well. I love this!

I want you to know that your blog post is listed in today's Fab Finds post at http://janasgenealogyandfamilyhistory.blogspot.com/2013/05/follow-friday-fab-finds-for-may-17-2013.html

Have a great weekend!

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